Lesson 9-Kissing Tips

From the past few days the guys are asking me how they can kiss their dates. I have explored a lot of things for this lesson. Check out if they work well and leave a comment if you have to say something to me.

A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone. This will help to avoid any unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing situations.The best type of kiss is one that uses different variations... such as starting with a small kiss, working into a French Kiss, maybe sucking on your partner's upper or lower lip...
And don't just leave kisses to the lips. Kiss their cheeks, their chin or their eyelids. This can be very seductive and romantic.

Basic Kissing Tips
Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath. If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.

Moist Lips
You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey. And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience. Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction. Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.

Open Lips
Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.
Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.

French Kissing
This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great french kiss.
Open Lips - Open your lips over your partner's slightly more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner's mouth.
Tongue - Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner's tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own. Have fun with it. Explore.

Using of Tongue
You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue. Suck Kissing can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.

Nip Kissing
This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your date. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your date / partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you've kissed a few times before, otherwise you may shock your partner.

Surprise Kissing
This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.

How to kiss shyness goodbye!
We've all seen kissing in the movies -- the way it's so perfect, and the way it just happens.
But real life is different. You're with that special someone at the movies. You want to kiss. But does he? Is he shy? Maybe you'll tell him you want to kiss him and end up rejected if he doesn't. Or maybe he wants to kiss you but he's the one who's shy. That's why kissing games are so popular.

Spin the bottle
The reason "Spin the Bottle" and other kissing games are so popular is that they let you kiss someone without having to admit that you like the person you're kissing. You're kissing because you have to.
Kissing games are also a good way to try different ways of kissing. In "Spin the Bottle," a group of guys and girls sit in a circle, and take turns spinning a bottle. When the bottle stops spinning you kiss the person it's pointing to.
But what if you're not playing a kissing game? How can you tell he wants to kiss you? Here's how:

How to tell if he wants to kiss you!
After you've kissed him once, you know he wants to kiss you. But what if you two have never kissed? The first kiss is the hardest.
You could ask him to kiss you, but that takes a lot of courage. But you can tell, without reading his mind. Here are some ways. He could have worked on the science project with someone else, but he asked you. He could have called somebody else to chat about the English assignment, but he called you. He could have sat anywhere in the cafeteria, but he sat next to you. It all means he likes to hang out with you.
And what about when you're with him. Does he sit close to you? Does he smile and look happy when you're together? These are all signs that he likes you and might want to kiss you.

How to get him to kiss you
Sometimes people who are nervous send out mixed signals. You might want him to kiss you, but your nervous behavior might be saying "stay away."
First of all your posture should be open. Sit or stand close to him. Face him. Look at him, not at the ground. Don't cross your arms or lean away; or, instead of "kiss me" you'll be saying "kiss off!"
Look into his eyes. Smile. Get close to him. If you're not holding hands yet, do it. Ask him to help you remove an earring, or undo the clasp of that gold chain you're wearing. To do that he's got to put both hands on your neck.
Now turn your head, and look in his eyes, and be quiet. Smile. If he says anything, just interrupt and whisper his name softly. He'll kiss you for sure!

How to kiss
When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and press gently against his lips. Tilt your head slightly to one side, so your noses won't get in the way.
What do you do next? It depends. If it's just a little kiss, a peck on the lips, move away but (this is very important) don't move away all of a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss! Just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands, and looking in his eyes.
On the other hand, if you're French kissing, read on ...

French kissing (or Frenching)
French kisses are kisses in which you also use your tongues. (That's why you part your lips slightly.) So, after you've started kissing, the next step is that either he will slip his tongue into your mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Don't let your tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully push his tongue out with yours, then let him push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on.
Repeat this until you get tired of it (which you never will!) or until your annoying little brother starts taping you with the camcorder and threatening to tell your parents.

Kissing with glasses or braces
If either of you wears glasses, just take them off before kissing.
If either has braces, the important thing not to press too hard agains this lips. Otherwise the braces will dig themselves into the inside of his mouth. Ouch!
If you both have braces, don't worry! During normal kissing your braces won't touch, so they can't get tangled up with each other!

Kissing do's and dont's
A sure way to ruin a perfect kiss is with bad breath. Carry around some mints or gum, and have one a few moments before you kiss. Offer him one too. Avoid spicy foods, garlic and onions just before. Or at least make sure you're both eating spicy food, so neither will notice. Non-smokers hate kissing a smoker! It's as gross as kissing an ashtray! You might be nervous, but don't giggle during or after you kiss. The other person won't understand it's nervous laughter. He'll think that you were laughing at him!

Kissing and health
Can you "catch something" by kissing? Yes you can -- anything from just a cold to a pretty serious sexually transmitted disease. Also, since the AIDS virus has been found in the saliva of people with AIDS, it could be transmitted by kissing someone who has the disease, especially if you have any cuts in your mouth.
There's no such thing as 100% safety. But if someone has a cold or the flu, wait until it's over. If you see he's got sores on his mouth or lips, stay away! Also, if you have cuts in your mouth, or he does this increses your chance of passing on infection.
I don't want to make you paranoid, but just to tell you there's no such thing as "safe kissing" so keep that in mind.

Kissing and s-e-x
Kissing can be a lot of fun. Don't think that just because you kiss a guy you have to do anything more.
On the other hand, once you're kissing passionatley, you might both feel like going further. The best way I know to avoid that is to kiss him in a semi-public place. If you kiss him in a movie theater or on your front porch, you know it's not going to lead to sex right there!
On the other hand, if you're sitting on your bed when your parents aren't home, there's not really anything to stop you, so it's something you might want to avoid.
I'm not trying to tell you how to run your life, just telling you what's worked for me.

Practice makes perfect!
The only way to get good at kissing is to practice. Have fun!

Lesson 8-Famous Love Quotations

1. Love doesn't make the world go round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.
- Franklin P. Jones

2.At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet. -Plato

3.Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired. - Robert Frost

4.If you have it,you don't need to have anything else, and if you don't have it, it doesn't matter much what else you have. - Sir James M. Barrie

5.Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence. - Henry Louis Mencken

6.Love is a friendship set to music - E. Joseph Cossman

7.True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears

checked. - Erich Segal

8.Love is a canvas furnished by Nature and embroidered by imagination. - Voltaire

9.They do not love that do not show their love. The course of true love never did run smooth. Love is a familiar. Love is a devil. There is no evil angel but Love. - William Shakespeare

10.Like the measles, love is most dangerous when it comes late in life. - Lord Byron

Some of more collections of famous love quotations:

1. Love, like a river, will cut a new pathwhenever it meets an obstacle.
2. Love is like a mustard seed;planted by Godand watered by men
3. There is only one happiness in life,to love and be loved.
4. You know you are in lovewhen you see the world in her eyes,and her eyes everywhere in the world.
5. When you love someone,all your saved-up wishes start coming out.
6. Love is like a blazing flame,golden and full of warmth
7. Love is not needing a snooze button on your alarm clockbecause when it goes off the first time in the morningthe thoughts of your loved onemake it impossible to fall back asleep.
8. True Love never grows old.
9. Love arrives on tip-toe and bangs on the door when it leaves.
10. Love makes the world go round.
11. When poverty comes in at the door, love flies out of the window.
12. Love is the wisdom of fool and folly of the wise.
13. Two souls with but a single thought, two hearts that beat as one.
14. Love conquers all things : let us, too give into love.
15. People who are sensible about love are incapable of it.
16. Take away love and our earth is a tomb.
17. Love is the loveliest when enbalmed in tears.
18. Love reckons hours for months and days for years; and every little absense is an age.
19. Love is an ocean of emotions, entirely surrounded by expeses.
20. Everybody in love is blind.
21. Love is born of faith, lives on hope and dies of charity.
22. Love never claims, it ever gives. Love ever suffers, never resents, never revenges itself.
23. Death cannot stop true love; it can only delay it for a little while.
24. Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it'scalled falling in love, because you don't force yourself to fall, you just fall.
25. Lucky is the man who is the first love of a woman,but luckier is the woman who is the last love of a man
26. It takes a minute to have a crush on someone,an hour to like someone, and an day to love someone...but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
27. It breaks your heart to see the one you love is happywith someone else, but it's more painful to know thatthe one you love is unhappy with you.
28. If love is the answer,can you please repeat the question?
29. Faith makes all things possible. Love makes them easy.
30. I believe that to truly Love, is the ultimateexpression of the will to live. A heart thattruly loves is forever young.
31. Love makes life so confusing, but without lovewould you really want to live?
32. Do you love me because I am beautifulor am I beautiful because I am loved?
33. Love me now, love me never,but if you love me, love me forever.
34. Three things of life that are most valuable -Love, self-confidence & friends.
35. To the world you may be just one person,but to one person you may be the world.
36. Love is like heaven, but it can hurt like hell.
37. Who do you turn to when the only personin the world that can stop you from crying,is exactly the one making you cry?
38. He taught me how to love,but not how to stop.
39. Of all forms of caution, caution in love is the most fatal.
40. We come to love not by finding a perfect person,but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.
41. Many a young lady does not realize just how strongher love for a young man is until he fails to passthe approval test with her parents.
42. Is it better for a woman to marry a man who loves herthan a man she loves.
43. Give her two red roses, each with a note. The first note says 'For the woman I love' and the second, 'For my best friend.'
44. A good marriage is like a casserole,only those responsible for it reallyknow what goes in it.
    No one is perfect until you fall in love with them.
45. Love, true love, is that which can give the mostwithout asking or demanding anything in return.
46. Where there is love, there is God also.
47. All, everything that I understand,I understand only because I love.
48. Love cures people -- both the ones who give itand the ones who receive it.
49. One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life:That word is love.
50. It is wrong to think that love comes from long companionshipand persevering courtship.
51. Love is the offspring of spiritualaffinity and unless that affinity is created in a moment, itwill not be created for years or even generations.
52. When they asked me what I loved most about life,I smiled and said you.
53. Just because you know someone doesn't mean you love them,and just because you don't know people doesn't mean you can'tlove them. You can fall in love with a complete stranger in aheartbeat, if God planned that route for you. So open your heartto strangers more often. You never know when God will throwthat pass at you.
54. Love... What is love? Love is to love someonefor who they are, who they were, and who they will be.
55. Why do you say you love me, if you are only going to leave me?
56. Love is like a river, always changing,but always finding you again somewheredown the road.
57. Love is a language spoken by everyone,but understood only by a heart.
58. People need love even when they don't deserve it.
59. For every word you say, another piece of my heart you take.
60. Maybe God put a few bad people in your life,so when the right one came along you'd be thankful.
61. Love the heart that hurts you,But never hurt the heart that loves you.
    Love me for a reason,let the reason be love.
62. It doesn't take a reason to love someone,but it does to like someone. You don't lovesomeone because you want to, you love someonebecause you are destined too. It's because youfall in Love with them, that you then try tofind a reason, but you always come up withthe answer, No reason!
63. Love is the beginning of all the joywhich nature has store for us.
64. Never say goodbye when you still want to try.Never give up when you still feel you can take it.Never say you don't love a person when you can't let go.
65. Say I love you and mean it,don't just say it cause you can.
66. Love is a many splendid thing. Love lifts us up where we belong. All you need is love!
67. I would fly you to the moon and back if you'll be . . . if you'll be my baby.
68. I love you - those three words have my life in them.
69. What lies behind us, and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
70. When you love someone, all your saved-up wishes start coming out.
71. Soul meets soul on lover's lips.
72. Love, you know, seeks to make happy rather than to be happy.
73. Absence sharpens love, presence strengthens it.
74. Paradise is always where love dwells.
75. True love is eternal, infinite, and always like itself. It is equal and pure, without violent demonstrations: it is seen with white hairs and is always young in the heart.
76. To love is to receive a glimpse of heaven.
77. The person who tries to live alone will not succeed as a human being. His heart withers if it does not answer another heart. His mind shrinks away if he hears only the echoes of his own thoughts and finds no other inspiration.
78. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
79. Love is the emblem of eternity: it confounds all notion of time: effaces all memory of a beginning, all fear of an end.
80. Come live in my heart, and pay no rent.
81. The life and love we create is the life and love we live.
82. Love looks through a telescope; envy through a microscope.
83. For every beauty there is an eye somewhere to see it. For every truth there is an ear somewhere to hear it. For every love there is a heart somewhere to receive it.
84. A goal, a love and a dream give you total control over your body and your life.
85. Love: a temporary insanity, curable by marriage..
86. Love is not love that alters when it alteration finds.
87. If I could reach up and hold a star for every time you've made me smile, the entire evening sky would be in the palm of my hand.
88. You don't marry someone you can live with - you marry the person who you cannot live without.
89. Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction.
90. "A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous."
91. "I never knew how to worship until I knew how to love."
92. "True love is like ghosts, which everybody talks about and few have seen."
93. "Better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all."
94. "To love another person is to see the face of God."
95. "Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition."
96. "Sympathy constitutes friendship; but in love there is a sort of antipathy, or opposing passion. Each strives to be the other, and both together make up one whole."
97. "The richest love is that which submits to the arbitration of time."-Lawrence Durrell
    very small degree of hope is sufficient to cause the birth of love."
98. "There is no remedy for love but to love more."
99. "Love cures people - both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it."
100. "To love and win is the best thing. To love and lose, the next best."
101. "If you love someone, let them go. If they return to you, it was meant to be. If they don't, their love was never yours to begin with..."
102. "True love never dies for it is lust that fades away. Love bonds for a lifetime but lust just pushes away."
103. "Who says love never lives? Maybe we've never lived."
104. "Some love lasts a lifetime. True love lasts forever."
105. "If love is great, and there are no greater things, then what I feel for you must be the greatest."
106. "The Eskimos have 52 words for snow because it is so special to them; there ought to be as many for love!"
107. "Love is like playing the piano. First you must learn to play by the rules, then you must forget the rules and play from your heart."
108. "Within you, I lose myself. Without you, I find myself wanting to be lost again."
109. What love we've given, we'll have forever. What love we fail to give, will be lost for all eternity.
110. For the memory of love is sweet, though the love itself were in vain. And what I have lost of pleasure, assuage what I find of pain.
111. Love can never give too much, But those of us who love Can give in too much.
112. If you have love in your life it can make up for a great many things you lack. If you don't have it, no matter what else there is, it's not enough.
113. The greatest weakness of most humans is their hesitancy to tell others how much they love them while they are still alive.
114. Jealousy is indeed a poor medium to secure love, but it is a secure medium to destroy one's self-respect. For jealous people, like dope-fiends, stoop to the lowest level and in the end inspire only disgust and loathing.
115. When we cannot get what we love, we must love what is within our reach.
116. Love is the delusion that one man or woman differs from another.
117. Time goes by a lot slower when you miss the one you love.
118. Love and death are the two great hinges on which all human sympathies turn.
119. If something happens you cannot control, then life isn't going to wait for you to catch up; you just have to keep on moving with life. If it's a boyfriend problem, then think, I'm worth way more then all this. I'm going to make it and life goes on.
120. Love is as much of an object as an obsession, everybody wants it, everybody seeks it, but few ever achieve it, those who do will cherish it, be lost in it, and among all, never... never forget it.